So I’m in a toxic relationship, ima 27m with a 30f. So basically we got into a argument last Tuesday and I faked a suicide attempt to the point she called 911 from across the country (USA) and now my brother won’t let me live with him unless I’m not with her anymore. I also pretended to be my brother and text her I was dead. So come this past weekend she had to celebrate Christmas as Easter with her 2 kids and completely disappeared this weekend from Friday around 12 till Saturday night around 9. I caught an attitude like so many times in the past year I got mad and called her every name in the book cuz I felt she could’ve at least involved me in her life in some way. We both do shit to trigger each others traumas unintentionally and intentionally. I have mommy issues n she’s claiming ima narcissist and she’s a diagnosed borderline (bpd). Is it bad I expected her to involve me in some way? This has been an on and off issue. Is 5 days somewhat a good enough time to heal? What do yall think?