I think it’s a common debate if porn in a relationship is cheating. Some say yes, some say no, but the best way to explain it is if both you and your partner agree it is than it is, if it’s not than it’s not. Personally, I do not consider it to be “cheating” necessarily, that’s too strong of a statement. But am I comfortable with it? No. Does it make me jealous? Yes. Do I feel somewhat disrespected and unworthy? Yes. My bf recently told me he will sometimes watch porn. I am 19F he is 19M, we have been dating 9 months. Am I just being insecure or are my feelings valid? To be clear, I am not prohibiting him from watching porn, but I just said it makes me uncomfortable. What are your thoughts. Advice?