📝 Relationship argument

By ThrowRAco0 • Score: 1 • April 14, 2025 12:31 PM


My (24f) boyfriend (25m) works from Monday to Friday from 7am-8pm, some days he will also work during the night and also some weekends a few hours. I usually go to my parents house to sleep if he isn't coming home so I don't sleep alone. Because of this, we can be 3-4 days without seeing each other.

The argument was that, lately as he has been getting off work, he will go to help his brother fix his car, go with him to buy spare parts for the cars... And then we won't see each other because of that. The days that we don't see each other I received no calls or text unless I call or text first. He also have no interest in doing things with me anymore. (I asked him to teach me how to ride a bike and ended up having to pay for classes) (I asked him to teach me how to fix my own bike but he would rather do it himself)...

He insist he does it for money and that he would much prefer to be with me but he "can't"

This week I'm on vacations and he gets out earlier so I asked him to come to my parents house to have dinner with me. But guess what? He is going with his brother to fix his sister in law's car 😂 (bare in mind that my car is also broken and none is fixing it) Anyways... Am I overreacting and exaggerating?

We have been together for 8 years now...

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