Me and my boyfriend were supposed to hang out to day once he was off of work. When he picked me he was on the phone with his sister's husband. Apparently they’re going through a rough time and are going to get a divorce. A lot of things were said and honestly I started getting offended and upset with everything that was being said given the fact that there are two young kids involved and these two people can’t act like fucken adults. What bothered me was that one my boyfriend was choosing sides and was throwing his sister under the bus. My boyfriend then started suggesting he gets revenge for all the stress he caused him and that's when I was like wtf is wrong with you they have two kids together and they’re not teenagers to be doing all this shit. My last straw was when my boyfriends sisters husband said that he also didn't like how his sister had gotten really fat and she wasn't doing anything about it and that was also really bothering him, and that's when they both started laughing after he said that. Mind you my boyfriend's sister has two kids and the youngest is under one.

I had always voiced with him that my biggest fear was having kids and my body changing so much to the point he disliked me. This has always been a fear of mine that I always told him and him just laughing and entertaining the fact that his sister just got insulted over that specific fear of mine really upset me. When I confronted him about he said that I didn't even know what his sister looked like. I got even more mad and said that's not the fucken point. He has no right to be entertaining a stupid comment regarding his sisters body weight and that I didn't recognize him and that it really showed he was an awful person doing that. He got really upset and drove me back home.

Idk what to do, now i’m scared he might be talking bad behind my back. My weight has always been something i’m insecure about.