Long story short I was very up when I met my current husband, even to the point where when we bought a house together, he had nothing he moved in with me. I paid cash for the house and I’ve been technically I stayed home wife for about a year now it’s gotten to the point where I believe we need to buy a new vehicle cause one of our paid off vehicle is not doing too good and it’s gonna cost us more money than it would to purchase and maintain a new one… when I’m asking for help for him to go with me to even just talk about a vehicle he shoots it down blah blah blah, and it’s truly hurting me to the core where I feel stupid for adding him onto my house when he’s not willing to be a partner and help me get into a vehicle that is very badly needed, especially since we don’t live in a town that has accessible public transport and plus I am always doing for him and I have a lot of medical doctor visits to go to and everything I’m actually in the process of applying for disability with a lawyer… I feel like after I paid for him for five years and I’m depleted and I need him. He is just adamant on not helping me at all not to go look not to do anything but criticize and it almost feels like he doesn’t want me to go out and have access to going out again. I’m starting to lose weight also I’m looking better but I love him and this behavior is actually pushing me more away, especially when he spends hours at the gym with the Good vehicle not getting home at the times where I could run errands when things close at a certain hour… I love this man, but I feel kind of stupid right now that he got me in a situation and it’s not willing to help me improve our lives together because it would improve both of us, but he doesn’t see it that way it’s just helping me out