AMITA for not being as present? I just feel like whenever I talk he doesn’t listen anymore or he just bulldozes over me. Me (25F) and my bf (25m) are in a 3 year relationship. We live 2 hours from each other so it’s too far but still long distance. We’ve always had slight communication problems and always talk it out if something bothers him, but if something bothers me, we rarely talk it out and he usually says I’m done talking about this or I don’t wanna talk about it anymore. He always goes out without me and it seems like he always picks a fight or tries to get me to not go when I rarely go out without my friends. He doesn’t really follow up with my requests of him just texting me when he gets home after a boys night out or talks to me without respect. I have been a little more distant and don’t call or text as much because I haven’t been getting back what I put out I guess you would say. He sent me a text about detaching from me because of it and then wouldn’t even answer a call or talk to me about it. - this the text word for word-(This relationship is one sided, I'm too close to you, you will have your space from now on, each time I ask you a question you get irritated. And you don't sound enthusiastic anymore. Don't take pics of us anymore. Idk if I'm over thinking but it doesn't feel like it. So I'm doing what's best for me and it's to detach myself. ) Every time I try to have a conversation with him he just shuts it off or says I’m talking about the past. I saw him after that text and he told me to “shut the fuck up for once” and repeated it twice in front of one of his friends. I’m tired of him talking to me this way and need to put my foot down. He just gets more negative and disrespectful it seems. How do I get him to listen to me and not just shut me down? Or should I just let him go?