Recently, me (15) and my mother had gotten into an argument after I bought a styling stick for my hair. She got accused me of not showering properly because she said she could still feel the wax on my hair because its dry (my hair has been dry before I got the styling stick) and she told me to take a shower. I took a shower and she touched my hair and accused me of not showering but I told her I did shower but she kept accusing me and she hit my head with a brush. My mom has a history of hitting me and my siblings when she's mad, however this one really hurt my head so I got very mad for a couple of days. My mom seemed to have noticed and gotten mad that I was still upset and accused me of being mad that she yelled at me so I've been locking myself in my room for the past few days because I honestly can't stand her anymore. I've been reflecting on my feelings on my mom and I realized that she makes me insecure by calling me names, dictates my choices (Like she projects her preferences to me and gets mad when I tell her I don't like those stuff), and constantly compares herself to me and gets mad when I don't act or get achievements like her. Then she talked to me today and basically got mad at me because I've been really "Disrespectful" to her even though I haven't done anything yet. I only don't talk to her as much anymore or is as chatty, and when I do talk to her I try to keep it short. Would I be the Asshole if I distanced myself cause tbh, I don't know what to do anymore and I'm so tired.