Hi! So let me clarify- I am in a WONDERFUL relationship but I’m needing more help financially and my boyfriend is a tightwad to say the least and he knows he is and doesn’t care. I’ve had several SD before while in a relationship and they all didn’t care if I had a SD as long as things never got sexual. My current partner would not think this way 😅 but if he’s not going to step up and help where I’m lacking would I really be the asshole?