Throw away account so as not to trace back to me just in case I'm the AH here. When my daughter was 7 months old, I (26F) met and started dating Jake (27M). He was amazing with my daughter who's biological dad was out of the picture. After 2 years, the relationship ended. I loved him, I think a part of me will always love him, but it started to feel like we were roommates because of our work schedules. That's besides the point. It's been 3 years. My daughter is now almost 5 and he has married in that time. Day before yesterday, a mutual friend of both of ours, sent me a screenshot from his wife's facebook where she posted the birth announcement of their daughter who they named the EXACT name (First, Middle, and spelling) of my daughters. I was stunned and still am. I'm not sure how to take it or if I'm reading too much into it.... but I have the overwhelming urge to message his wife. I do not want to cause a divide between them though and that's why I hesitate. But I would want to know if I named my child after my husband's ex's child. Wow even putting it down on here it seems so wild to say... because what would the reason behind it being. And just so everyone is aware, my daughters name is not common at all, especially the spelling so I really can't even say it's some coincidence. He would have known it was her name