Honestly, my wife (and I) are almost always excluded from family activities or outings in one way or another. My wife is literally the sweetest woman on Earth, (puts up with me), and has always been incredibly kind and patient as long as I've known her. We flew into town from out of state for her brothers wedding this Friday. Last night we had over her soon-to-be SIL, all of her siblings that were able to make it, and her other brother's fiancee. That other fiancee and her two sisters were talking about going to Target tomorrow... To buy the new SIL a gift for her bachelorette party on Thursday. We were shocked. We came from out of state, and assumed since we hadn't heard anything that she had already had it before we got there, (which would have been fine and understandable,) but now it turns out that my wife, his oldest sister, wasn't invited, but the other two sisters, (one 26F and the other 17F), AS WELL as the other brother's fiancee, are all going.

Not a WORD has been said to my wife about her being invited. When it got brought up, the two sisters acted like they got caught or something, didn't offer any consoling words, and changed the subject to my wife's health and how her kidneys are getting worse. 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

So, what do you think? Am I overreacting to not go to the wedding after all, tell off my in-law for being jerks to my wife her whole life, and possibly stop coming to family events?

EDIT: I literally don't understand the hate on this one. It makes me think I just posted too late at night and it's only incels doing downvotes right now. If you have a reason that I'm the problem, leave a comment with a fleshed out opinion. #SHEESH