My boyfriend always comes home and immediately gets into bed because hes tired. Which i get, but im almost never too tired to take a shower, and i dont ever smell as badly as he does when he doesnt shower for just a day if hes worked. Ive made comments about it before to him, not directly, and when i am home when he gets home ill sometimes make him shower first, but i feel guilty asking him too. And im not saying he never showers, he showers before work but hes not in business or anything so its pretty unnecessary if he would jjst shower after work. At the very least do both?? But the bed smells horrible and i have to wash the sheets often just because he crawls in bed straight out of work. I dont wanna make him insecure I just feel like its basic hygiene. He doesnt need to do a full shower . Even tho he should, but just wash your body with soap right? It takes like 10 minutes or am i insane. Especially with a partner? Anyway ranting, how do i nicely ask he keep up regular good hygiene?