Recently, I met a girl on Reddit and really liked her. We only knew each other for 2–3 days, but we connected quickly. I am in a long distance relationship with a straight guy (he knows that I’m BI), was on FaceTime when I showed him our texts and he was threatened by the idea of me talking to another girl. He asked me to stop talking to her, since our texts were a little flirty. He told me I can stay friends with her, but staying “just friends” won’t be possible as we started off on a different level.

The thing is I haven’t been with a girl, romantically yet, she was the first girl I genuinely started to like after my first same-gender crush. I didn’t want to ghost her, I felt really bad but also didn’t know how to explain her the situation (I know, my fault). So I just deleted my previous Reddit account. Idk if it’s regret or just guilt, but something’s sitting heavy with me.

I love my boyfriend, I really do. But I can’t help wondering why I’m feeling this way about her. I’m confused and don’t know what to do. AITAH?