So I (30F) got mad that my husband (32M) donated to a coworkers kids fundraiser. For context we live paycheck to paycheck and don’t really have extra funds for something like this. I also don’t like this coworker because she is a flirt with all the coworkers. He says everyone donated in their work friend group and he doesn’t see the issue. I honestly wouldn’t be that mad, but I normally don’t get my hair don’t and nails because of lack of funds. These are things he knows I would like to do but often sacrifice so we aren’t in debt. He then goes and donates just because this coworker asks when he probably wouldn’t donate if it was our family members kids. So I’d like to know Am I the Asshole?