Am I the asshole for being upset about my husband not doing anything for our 7 year anniversary? I am going through the motions and I a woman who understands her situation. However, not even a flower or a note or anything. I even had to remind him of the date. I’m just so tired of being the back burner of everything. I actually refused to get him a gift this year bc he stopped getting gifts a while ago and i just didn’t think it was fair to me. It’s way more going on but this just icing on the cake.