We'll call him Chris. Chris (22M) and I (18F) were in the 'talking stages' of a relationship after he confessed his feelings for me. We started talking, getting to know each other, and then we started sleeping together. Mind you, I'd met his mother and his siblings, and he'd met mine, as well as meeting my best friend.

So, in this specific scenario, we had just gotten done being intimate. Instead of aftercare, or any form of it, as he'd done beforehand, he got up, put his clothes back on, and moved across the room to his computer, where he then turned anime on, grabbed MY laptop to do who knows what else, while blaring music on his speakers, AND on his phone. Then he started calling all his friends and whatnot, completely disregarding that I was even there in first place. Then I happened to notice there was an incoming FaceTime from a girl on his phone. He saw who it was, turned to me, and verbatim said: "You need to be quiet for this phone call." Obviously pissed, I looked at him like he lost his mind and replied, "Excuse me?" He didn't answer me, and answered the phone call. I went up to go to the bathroom, and overheard him calling her his 'Mother-In-Law' and how he wanted to give her military benefits but he had to wait because she wasn't 'TECHNICALLY his mother-in-law YET."

YET.

When he hung up the phone, I was obviously upset, and he looked at me wondering what was wrong and that I 'looked upset' as I was gathering up my things because I was leaving (obviously). I just said I was tired and didn't want to spend the night so I was going back to my place. He said okay and he didn't say anything else, and when I later confronted him about it, he basically said: "Well, if that's how you feel..." OF COURSE THAT'S HOW I FEEL? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't know a single girl on this EARTH that wouldn't be upset about that.

I guess that's what happens when you go for personality rather than looks, because he was such a sweet talker at first.

Oh, and additionally, I've NEVER heard him say the word 'woman' a say in his life. He only ever refers to them as 'females'. Ick.

AITA?