If we expect no company or visitors over, the wife doesn't wear clothes all the time. Maybe if it's cold or something she'll put on something but otherwise it's like a nudist beach in our home 24/7.

I obviously don’t mind at all, I love it. She grew up in Sweden so I know she’s comfy and everything but she’s gotten very used to living like this to the point of almost lacking the awareness. I have to absolutely make sure I tell her anytime someone’s coming over, or if we need a service done, ect.

I’m concerned about surprise visitors or hell, our lawn or pool guy have already had the pleasure of getting an accidental glimpse. I suggested to her, maybe start wearing clothes around the house more? But she took it the wrong way.

I brought up with her the possible legalities of it as well, since she uses our pool like that. While we do have a privacy fence, she’s not invisible. AITA here? She thinks I’m sexualizing her as property of mine and it’s just a body. She doesn’t want me creating rules for how she dresses. She was actually very offended that I even mentioned this and pins it on me being controlling and almost misogynistic.