Me (20F) and my boyfriend (19M) have been together for a month in a long distance relationship. We went into a relationship way too fast and we both know that and neither of us was able to stop this feelings. We both come from a background of toxicity. I've always made clear to him that I want a non toxic relationship and someone who meets me halfway but today we got in a big fight about a comment he said, he thought I was mad about it (what I was not) we were in a call, he decided to leave it and give me the cold shoulder the whole day. I decided to give him alone cause I wasn't in the mood to keep up with that. We have had other problems but we always have found a common ground, normally because I was the one who always tried to fix up.

He send me a message of goodnight, literally, his whole massage was: Gn. That's all, i asked him if we could talk about what happened today, what he responded with "Idk" and then I insisted and he agreed. I told him, clearly, with dots commas and respectfully what hurted me from what he did, I explained that his words didn't hurt me and I reassured him on that and insisted on what for me was the real problem. The cold shoulder, I always told him to every time he needs space he can tell me so but disappearing out of nowhere made me feel hurt and more when he doesn't try to reconcile. I explained this to him and his response was, and I quote: "what am I supposed to say to that?". I tried to find a common ground, I should communicate my feelings better so he doesn't miss think of my feelings, and he literally couldn't even tell me what could he change to make the communication better.

Deeper in the argument he told me that he didn't wanted to change anything but want to make the things work and honestly, I can't, I don't want my future to be surrounded with the cold shoulder and toxicity. I love this men but I don't want to be with someone who isn't willing to meet me halfway and now I'm rethinking this relationship. At the end I told him to go to sleep and to think about it and we will talk tomorrow, but right now I'm pretty annoyed by this situation and kinda lost. AITA for trying to communicate better with him and for him to reciprocate?

PD: English isn't my first lenguaje, sorry for the mistakes!