So I (17f) became friends with a new student at my school, we’ll call her “Molly.” She’s very nice, very smart and friendly. However, she recently has made me uncomfortable.

We were talking about sexual stuff, and kinks were brought up, and we were joking about the bdsm test. I know it’s inappropriate but most teenagers talk about that. But then she said “if you ever want to explore those kinks with me i’m open to it.” Mind you we had known each other for 3 days at this point. I was like “no thanks” she was like “i’m sorry if i made you uncomfortable” and i was like “u didn’t its fine.” The thing is, she did but i felt bad bc she’s new and stuff.

She keeps coming up to me, and while i try to forget about that incident she has brought up kink again (she was like “there have been kinky things going on in film lately and i want to talk about it because i know you’re interested in that”) with me and after the time she literally offered to do bdsm with me after knowing me for 2 days, i have been uncomfortable with that. And i have found myself avoiding her more. She will sometimes stick around and sit close to someone when they’ve tried to hint that they want to be alone. So i try to stay away from her now.

But i feel bad. As a neurodivergent person I have been that person who makes people uncomfortable on accident and got ignored and excluded because of it and it made a big impact on me. Doing the same thing to her feels mean, but she also made me seriously uncomfortable.

So AITA for avoiding her?