I F22 and my husband M27 recently welcomed our second child a baby girl who was 2 weeks old at the time. We have one other child a boy 2 years old. A bit of backstory, I had a bad birth with my second which unfortunately resulted in an emergency c-section, I was badly stitched up twice, I went home the day after which was not recommended since it wasn’t a scheduled surgery, two days later my stitches tore causing me to be restitched, then a week later I got an infection in my incision, while all this was going on my sister F37 offered to watch our two year old son, she recently converted to a new religion, one that celebrates Ramadan (forgive me, I don’t know the exact religion) she converted because she fell in love with a man who could only marry her if she converted to his religion via his parents request. Me and my husband were more than thankful to let her take care of him as she had multiple times in the past and it had never been a problem, it was the middle of Ramadan when she was watching him, Leo slept over her house and when my husband picked him up the next morning he was crying in hunger, he brought him home and fed him and while we were all eating I asked him why he was so hungry, and when was the last time he ate, he told me that the last time he ate was when he was at home with me and my husband, initially I thought he was joking as toddlers usually do, but he went more in depth to how ‘aunty kk’ wouldn’t let him eat because it was Ramadan.

I called my sister up and the conversation started to the normal ‘was he good’ and then I brought up the what did he eat and she responded, “nothing, it’s Ramadan remember?” I froze in shock and replied with ‘Kay your joking right?’ She proceeded to explain how it wasn’t fair for him to eat because she wasn’t allowed to give in to her cravings and if she saw him eating she would want some, that fell into a big argument in which I told her not to contact me again, I hung up and blocked her number but she turned up on my doorstep screaming and yelling at me so I began playing music, I didn’t know much about Ramadan but I knew no music was allowed, so she had to leave, our brother who does not like my sister helped me get a restraining order and now my family is blowing up my phone for her, so am I the asshole?