📝 Am I the asshole for being insecure about my husband's ex?

By Then-Caramel498 • Score: 10 • April 20, 2025 5:37 PM


I (24F) and my husband (25M) have been married for the past two years, he's really close ti his uncle and aunt because his mom it's an addict and his dad is absent; his uncle, I'll call him Rich, and his aunt, Mary, have two friends, they have a daughter, Amy (23F). Amy and my husband are childhood friends, they dated since they were fifteen and seventeen until she turn eighteen and moved to another state for university, I meet my fiance six months later and we started dating a year after their break up. The problem is how stupiditly perfect she is, I don't have curves, I'm more chubby because I'm a gym rat, she's skinny and have a clock figure, I'm blonde, she's brunette and have beautiful curls, my eyes are brown and my skin is medium color, she has green eyes and is really white, also, our tastes and personalities are really differents, I'm a bit shy, she's really extraverted, she's really femenine, and I'm more like an Adam Sandler style; the other thing is that his family adores her, they always invite her and her parents on vacation, to dinner, they even ask her to babysit the kids, while they never ask me to. My husband and her have a really good chemistry, they're always joking, no flirting, but I can't help but feel left out, I know I have no reason to be insecure, because she's engaged, but I can't help it. The other day I brought it up to my husband and he got mad at me, so am I the asshole? Or do I have a reason to be insecure?

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