📝 AITA for being a 'perv'?

By ventiladorbrrr • Score: 0 • April 20, 2025 12:04 PM


I'm playing in a 4 days-long sports cup in the countryside, and we're staying in a place with bedrooms, a café and sports courts, playing several games a day. Yesterday I was on the field watching my club's U-16 team play — I don't play at the U-16 team because I'm 18 — when I saw a group of girls from a respected club playing with a football at the back of the field. I don't know their age, but they looked at least 16 as well. The girls were wearing their team's uniforms, except for one or two, who were only wearing black tops and shorts, revealing a lot of their skin. I said to two of my colleagues: "Damn, look at those girls from Palmeiras, playing in just tops!" thinking that it's totally acceptable to make that comment to healthy kids my age, but they both responded by calling me a pervert in a negative tone and glaring at me with a negative look. This particularly intrigues me because on the way to the tournament, we were all joking around that we were going to invite the Chilean and Peruvian "chicas" who came to play to here to "bailar" (we're in and from Brazil) that we were going to pick up the other girls and so on, so I don't understand the puritanism of these two colleagues of mine, the ones who are the most playful. I didn't stare at the girls, I just glanced at them once or twice (although I wanted to look at them for a little longer), and continued watching our U-16 game.

Was I really rude for the comment I made? Is it acceptable to say "Damn, I really wanna get pussy pussy today!" without referring to any woman, but it looks bad when you refer to a specific individual?

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