I 25f lost my baby at 23 weeks and everyone knew I was pregnant because we told them at 13weeks. It was hard to lose my baby, but I took my time to process the loss. I was hospitalized due to sever preeclampsia then I had a placental abruption later that week and delivered our stillborn son.

Last week I was with my MIL, and she mentioned something about the loss and then I asked her how she knows, and she told me that my fiancé Matt 27m told her. She then told me that its ok and I shouldn't worry, we can always try again. I did not say anything to her, but I was so irritated that Matt told her when I wanted to do it at my own time. I know they would have figured it out, but I just wanted some time to process and deal with this. The whole afternoon was filled with my MIL giving advice and trying to tell me how to 'keep' a pregnancy. When I got home Matt, and I got into an argument.

I told him how I do not appreciate him blurting out my business and how he should've waited until we were BOTH ready to share the loss. He told me his mom is family, and he was venting to her as he was stressed. I expressed sympathy for him about that, but I explained to him that I did not appreciate him telling her this early on. He got frustrated and told me to get over it, and that I cannot be hung up over 1 loss when people have more. He also said if we try again, I will feel better and will forget I even went through this pain.

I told him he does not get it, I felt the little soft flutters and I watched him grow just for it to come to an abrupt end. I blame myself even now, but he just talked as though our son was nothing to him. I told him that I definitely would not being trying again and that I am healing, and I yelled at him to tell his mother to stop being invasive and insensitive. He told me to stop being dramatic and walked out yelling "Don't wait up for me". I kid you not this man left me in the house alone after we lost our son 4 weeks ago. He came back this morning at 4am and got ready for work then left. We have not talked yet.

I'm assuming he told his mom because I have 3 missed calls from her, I am not planning on answering her calls right now. I told my mom, and she told me to give him some time he will come around.

AITA for being angry he told his mom. I was going to tell her but not this soon.