I (31F) have been dating my bf (40M) for two years. He has a friend (he’s known him but never been close, don’t hang out exc) who is an attractive gay man. Don’t get me wrong, my boyfriend is a good guy who doesn’t discriminate, which I agree with. He has said the gay dude would hit on him here and there. That he is never going to be about it or do it back, but he finds it “flattering”… kinda weird but sure. Here’s the issue.. I seen a message pop up on his phone, it’s the dude replying to his IG story making sexual comments. Then being like “hahahaha sorry”. Obviously I called it out. He just acted annoyed like “what am I supposed to do about it”. Pretending like he can’t just stop interacting with this person. I find it disrespectful that the guy knows he is in a relationship and also a littler strange he just feels comfortable doing so. Again, not an actual friend, never close, they didn’t grow up together exc. basically I’m told to just deal. I went through their messages and it’s just memes and not a lot of actual conversation. Note, as soon as I seen the guys messages I sent him a friend request (I’ve been dating his “friend” for two years so why not) and he rejects it LOL