I m(37) and my friend f(29) often play games when we hang out. Last night while playing uno flex it came down to the end of a game I flexed and played a wild draw 2 for uno she had one as well and tried to stack but didn't flex. I asked if she played the card as is and she says yes so I proceeded to say "so pick that up and draw 2" she declines and says "no you have to draw 4 because you should know I intended to stack" I went to explain that I assumed that as well but by the rules you didn't flex so it's just a wild so draw. She argues that because I knew her intent that it shouldn't matter. Now normally I would have went with it but playing phase 10 prior to this we both had a run of 9 the exact same way laid down so we were both looking for the same card so I assumed that who ever drew it first was going first the next hand( we play if you discard out before the other person you go first the next hand) which I did but I laid it on the discars pile with the intent to go first on the next phase she then proceeds to pick up the card put it on her phase and discard and said she gets to go first next hand because I technically discarded which I agreed but also explained why I did it which she said didn't matter because the rules are the rules. When I reminded her of that she said that it's not the same thing and that I was being petty. I asked how and she said because the actions were different. I said yes because it's two different games but the concept of what you did was the same don't use a rule to win when it benefits you and ignore it when it doesn't. She said its a difference of opinions and you're not going to convince me otherwise. I said no it's a difference in morals and I'm not playing shit with you ever again she said what I said was harsh and I was being dramatic but I was serious. AITAH?