📝 AITA for being quiet after my friend betrayed my trust?

By mondrtuw • Score: 2 • April 13, 2025 4:33 PM


Hi,Reddit. This post isn't really about AITA or not,just need an advice on what to do. Anyways! Me (16F) and my classmate (17F) have been on ok terms for 8 years. we were never friends ,just on good terms,but recently we’ve been talking frequently,because we are in the same friend group. So,around October,I started liking this guy at our school. Nothing serious,just a crush. She knew about that,and up until what happened,she gave me info about him. like,his age,his hobbies,etc. I was happy,because I'm kind of a shy person,and I avoid being close to him,hence why I'm not able to listen in on his conversations to know all that. basically,what started the mess was her following him on insta. at the time,she would also say things like "you are too good for him",and all that. Long story short,she also started liking him. She would even tell her friends about how handsome he was. I didn't want any drama,so,I just didn't say anything,quietly unfollowed her everywhere,basic quiet leave tactics. But,now,she's talking stuff about me,how dramatic I am,how sensitive I am,that I'm unstable and egotistic. I'm not saying anything,because,why bother. But,her recent comment really stung. We got vaccinated at school the other day. It was kinda painful for me and couple of other friends. We told others about it,and were just having fun and screaming and laughing and telling everyone how painful it was. She told one of our mutual friends that I probably cried and yelled,because I'm "always exaggerating and being a drama queen". Vaccinations are scary for me,idk really know the reason why. I hate when people call me sensitive and dramatic. So,Reddit,should I ignore her,or should I confront her?

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