📝 AITA for being upset because my situationship only texts me when he’s free?

By Hopeful_Jaguar_4753 • Score: 0 • April 5, 2025 4:27 AM


Okay so me and this guy have been talking for awhile, he wants to start dating but i’ve realized recently that im someone who can make time for anyone at anytime. but on the other hand he only really texts me when he’s free and he won’t be doing anything for at least thirty minutes. i don’t need him to text me everyday but for some reason i feel sad that i put in a lot of effort to send him texts of reassurance and love whenever i think about him, but he doesn’t shoot me a quick text to do the same. i know i can’t expect everyone to think/ act the way i do but i can’t help but feel like if it’s this way now ill only be unhappy if we’re together. ive tried to talk about it to him and he tells me he’ll try harder but i don’t want to stress him out over this. we’re young and don’t work, and i understand school and stuff but he usually leaves me on delivered through most of the day. i don’t want to be too clingy but i really like him. i really want this to work but im not sure what to do.

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