I'm just confused. His friends are messaging me and saying I fumbled a good guy and I do not know what to think. I've dated him for only 7ish months and we separated in around March. He forced me to keep this "stay pure for me" promise that I didn't want to keep. But he keeps harassing me and begging me to. So I agreed. During the few weeks we have been broken up, he began monitoring me and dming me on different accounts to ask things like "I saw you reposting this video (of a celebraty), I thought you're keeping the promise." Or "You're keeping the promise, right?" I ignored it. Three days ago, I wrote on my insta story "I love him" referring to my cat and he crashed out in my dms. He called me ahole, btch and those other names. He also called my phone over 70 times within 2 days with 20+ different phone numbers. In the middle when he realized it was a misunderstanding, he said he'll change and for me to give him a chance. And when I told him off, he crashed out again and told me I will never be in a relationship again cus I'm a horrible partner. One of his friends dmed me today and said I fumbled and that I am a ho for moving on when I haven't. I am confused and lost. He is still stalking me on tiktok because I see him putting my vids in his favorites. Aita? I don't think I am but people keep telling me I am :( I have a lot of screenshots and proofs too