Back in August I (21f) met my friend (35f) at a work orientation, she was a new hire and we hit it off immediately. Long story short we got real close and we’re spending just about every day together. She’d help me out by picking me up in the morning and taking me to work (I’d give her gas money), we’d spend our afternoons after work together, and we’d spend our weekends together. I even spent Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years with her. 

My friend is known for being kind of a liar/unreliable. Anybody that’s close with her kind of just plays it off or excuses it with, “you know how she is.” Honestly, other than the pathological lying and the unreliability she’s a good friend (that sounds crazy😭but she’s also loyal, down to earth, and fun to be around). We’ve got into a few arguments in the past about the unreliability and other small things. I’d say there was also a drift in our friendship when she introduced/set me up (she was wanting us to get together but based on how she was acting when we actually did hit it off I don’t think she thought it’d get as serious as it did and I don’t think she really liked it) with her cousin. I did admittedly get real sucked into my relationship though. We had a few conversations about it and made up. Anyways, she ended up getting terminated or quitting our job. I wasn’t really seeing her for like 2 weeks cause we weren’t carpooling in the morning and when we made plans they kept falling through. Then she ended up sliding up on this story I posted of her cousin and I saying she was happy for us and glad that we met. We ended up having this heart to heart where I apologized for not being there as much for her when she’s been going through it/offering encouragement and she apologized for being distant. We made plans that day… they fell through. But we were cool and we hung out this weekend. Well yesterday we made some more plans to go and try that Dubai chocolate. She had said she knew about a restaurant that had it and that we could go over there and try it together since she’d been talking about it for a minute. I called her, she said one more stop she’s on her way. More than an hour later, I call again she says she’s on her way. Another hour passes, she says she had to stop at her house because they’re installing a new washing machine. Then radio silence. And then I felt some type of way and I texted, “ima just block you bro I’m sick of ppl playin w my time 😂.” Might’ve been petty but I did block her and we haven’t spoke since. I think it’s just built up. Well I hadn’t unfriended her on snap until this morning and she had posted, “never cared🤷🏻‍♀️” and then on Facebook posted, “one thing about it i never gave af about nobody cutting me off not fwm none of ts cuz 9 times 10 i stop fw you first now clock 🤏🏽that bookie butt😘.” (Blocked her on there too). I don’t know I’m not a perfect person and I did things wrong too but I can honestly say I put a lot of conscious effort into trying to be a good friend/do right by her. Am I in the wrong? Is it justified? I just feel like her posting these things is so hateful and angry when I feel like she in the wrong. I’m just trying to have some self respect, I don’t wanna have to beg and press someone to hang out with me or follow through with plans.