📝 Aita for breaking friendship over a guy

By Primary_Influence_20 • Score: 2 • April 8, 2025 11:13 PM


So I(21f) was friends with this girl(21f) since a year and a half and we became very very good friends. Now this girl played around with guys a lot. A guy liked her, she made out with him and then let him go, that guy was friends with both of us. I told her it was wrong and she agreed and said she won’t do it again. Then she gave hopes to some other guy who liked her and cut him off as well, potrayed him wrongly in front of us so we didn’t say anything. Cut to 6 months back we went on a party she starts getting touchy with this committed guy who claims he was on a break. He said that he wanted to breakup for a long time and had lost feelings altogether so in his mind he had broken up. She was drunk and whole night I’m pulling her away from him and just holding her. And I confirmed from sources after they were not on a break. Next day I confront her for being the other woman and for ruining my party. She cries, apologises. Cut to next party she does it again, I confront her again and she cries and apologies. She does it again and this time I tell her we can’t be friends because our thinking does not match bro cries again and is then depressed for a long time. In these fights I always ask her if she has feelings for this guy and that she can date him if she does after he breaks up, she denies it. Now this one fine day she comes up to us and says I like him, he likes me I think something’s going to happen and I thought you should know. I ask her what she expects off me and that I don’t trust her because she always lied to me. She’s very depressed after this, She comes up to me again and says it won’t ever happen again and that we mean a lot to her, she says that why would you break friendship over this small thing i.e. why would we overreact getting emotional we forgive her again and ask for space. Now they’re dating and we broke the friendship so did I overreact or am i the asshole?

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