📝 AITA for breaking up with my bf after finding out what he wrote on reddit

By doll_982 • Score: 71 • April 4, 2025 11:44 PM


Okay so i recently found reddit on my boyfriend’s phone well i don’t usually go through his phone like ever dont mind me but it was open and well I couldn’t

Anyways so apparently he posted this

“Okay I’m a white 23m and I have been together with this girl who’s 19 Indian girl since a almost a year now , She’s beautiful and perfect in all the days you would need a girl to be , she has a good smile , she’s good looking and she’s kind , but lately I have been having issues with her decisions , I like to believe in women being more feminine which she is , but apparently she also wants to have a career , which I don’t want her to have , I like it when she’s dependent on me , when she asks me for stuff when she needs me for stuff , but having a career would make her independent, she wouldn’t have that begging look when she begs me to buy her a dress or a purse , she would go and work with other men , which pisses me off , I like her at home I like her when she cooks , cleans , and she looks perfect when she’s feminine and acts like a little housewife serving me , begging for my attention , asks me how my day was , I don’t think she needs a job I’m quite wealthy myself I can afford everything she needs and more easily , so why should a woman work if her man can give her anything she wants , anyways so I’m obsessed with her and I’m a very possessive man , I have set up a secret tracker in her phone too , she’s a little naive like that she wouldn’t even doubt anything. So apparently she tried to have a job in my dads friends company which she got it so I used my connections and secretly got her fired for irrelevant reasons , anyways so when she came home sad , I pretended to feel bad for her and said she has me well , tho I’m gonna soon convince her to marry me and make sure she never leaves me”

After I found out I was pretty mad and I broke up with him but apparently he said it was just a joke to get some likes on reddit and that he didn’t do anything at all.

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