I (19F) was with my boyfriend (26M) and we were doing it in bed. I've only done it a few times, and this time things started off fine, but at some point he sped up and it started to hurt. I told him "Hey, slow down, that hurts" and he slowed down but it didn't help and so I told him "its really hurting now, can we stop please".

He kind of froze for a second, then said, "I'm literally about to finish babe, it feels so good, just give me a second" and held my hips while he kept going and I sort of muttered "no it hurts" as he continued. I didn't physically push him off or yell or anything, I just kept saying "it hurts" and "babe" as he went for maybe 30 more seconds and then he finished.

I got up and went to the bathroom to clean. He followed me after a bit and acted like everything was fine, but I felt... weird. He said he thought I didn't really want him to stop and I didn't move and he thought I was liking it. I ended up leaving and called him later that we need to break up.

He was upset and told me that he genuinely thought I was okay with him finishing because I didn't move and he thought I was liking it since I was grunting a little, and that he thought I was just a little uncomfortable. He said it felt so good and he felt like he had to finish because he was so close. He said he thought I'd do the same if I was on top and the roles were reversed. My friend told me it seemed like just a miscommunication and breaking up was unfair. AITA??