Throwaway account. Me and a bunch of people work at this place twice a week and we're all in our early 30's.

One guy who talks non stop is always very explicit. He says crass things that are very out there.

He uses words like faggots and trannies. When he used the t-word I told him very nicely that it's not cool and he should say transperson. He didn't say anything back. He says racist things. He talks about sex too. Every single time this is the stuff he talks about and laughs about and thinks is so funny.

I said he was a motherfuc*er jokingly and what does the little bitch do? Ran to the manager and told him and had the manager talk to me. In front of the manager he never talks like that so now it seems like I am a weirdo for calling my coworker that out of the blue. When the manager is around my coworker says nothing like he does usually.

I messed up but am so upset and confused right now. Can't believe I let my guard down.