I (18f) made plans with my 2 bestfriends (also both 18f). We have a music festival coming up next week that finishes late. We planned to get a hotel together so we don’t have to go home on the train late at night.

Last night we were about to book the hotel but then they told me it wasn’t going to just be us 3 girls. One of my friends planned to bring her boyfriend and the other one wanted to bring this random guy she just started talking too. I was taken back as i didn’t expect this.

I think it’s odd for me to go if everyone else has someone. I tell them that it’s fine if they want the hotel with the guys but i’ll just sit this one out. I told them i’d just leave earlier and go home by myself or i might just not go at all. Tbh i don’t feel comfortable spending the night with a guy i don’t know in the room. My friend barely knows him. My friend also said how he’s known for taking and dealing drugs which also makes me uncomfortable so stay with him.

They also said we need to book a bigger room because the boys are coming. So i would have to pay more but then sleep on the couch because the couples are taking the beds. I told them this and how i felt. I didn’t want to ruin their experience so i kept telling them it was okay but im just not going to stay at the hotel.

They got mad at me and said it was rude and selfish because we planned this together and they really wanted me there. I tried to tell them that i planned to be with them not them and other guys. They then said “if that’s the problem i can bring his friend for you” that makes it even worse. I don’t want anyone, especially someone i don’t know, and to sleep with them? no way.

They are mad at me now and giving me the cold shoulder. Don’t really know what to do. Am i being selfish or dramatic?