My wife 37 female, recently passed. Now I 41 male “cheated” on her. She told me once she died I was not allowed to remarry or have sex with another woman. She had breast cancer and had passed three weeks before I “cheated”. The woman was her brother’s girlfriend, (21 female) I was not thinking start and was drunk. She seduced me, took advantage of me because I was drunk. I had no intention to sleep with her, it all happened to quick and now a bit fuzzy. I don’t completely blame her, I didn’t stop her and went along with it. I will be telling my brother at some point this week. Yes sleeping with my wife’s brother’s girlfriend was fucked up, but I need to know AITA for “cheating” on my wife.