Hello everyone. I’m honestly kinda devastated right now but I’ll try to be coherent.

Me (M32) and my beloved wife (W33) are experiencing a hard time in our relationship, after she admitted that she was recently having feelings towards other women.

She was having dates with them, without intercourse admittedly, but when confronted about it she’s defensive and is saying that it’s not the same as cheating because it was strictly platonic and not with a guy.

She wants me to understand that she was having those feelings recently and was scared to admit it.

I feel absolutely betrayed and shattered, because for me she’s the only person in the world and the love of my life. I do not know what to do…

We discussed it and she said she will try to get herself under control and to change. I don’t want to live in constant fear of it happening again, but also without her :(

Any advice would be appreciated…