I have just had to cut off my bestfirbed. Let’s call her Amy.

We have known eachother for years and actually did not like eachother previously! I was always told to be careful of her as she is known for lying. However, I like to give everyone a chance. I remeber a few years ago we were friends but not close and there was a falling out with a group of us, completly forgot what it was about.

In late 2023 we moved on from the beef and became closer. I remeber when I was friends with her then she made up someone about a male acquaintance cheating on his gf by sending nudes to herself, Amy. I went to this event without Amy and I was speaking to that male who first brought it up. Amy was never mentioned. He said “why the fuck is Amy saying all this stuff like I never did it’s so weird” I just tried to brush it off and somewhat stick up for her and act dumb. More members from that male group realised we were friends and all had something bad to say about her.

A few months after, Amy got a boyfriend. We would still speak here and there but would never see eachother.

They broke up in early October 2024. Since then we were basically insperable.

We would see eachother nearly everyday and talk all the time. Im have a very small circle. She lived close to me so it was easy to hang out and I felt bad because she was so emo about the breakup.

After non stop hahging out, I started to notice she was being a bit rude to me and think she was better then me. Making me feel uncomfortable. For example, we were at the pub getting a drink and it was so quiet, it was me and her and then the bartender. She started to say loudly in a mean tone “why are you standing like that? The fuck are you standing like that? Your so fucking weird” very loudly and the bar tender was like WTF! I just tried to brush it off. Another time, I had a free house and these boys who we both know on a friendly conversation level came over. She goes out of no where “you know im like her only friend” and I tried to be like “yeah and im yours to” to laughably brush it off. She then proceeded to go on about how she has other friends.

I tried to cut her off after that, we didn’t speak for like a month but I had a concert I had tix with so I just sucked it up and befriended her again…regretfully.

That was late November 2024. Fast forward to April 2025. I have probably needed so many weekly breaks from this girl im not joking.

This girl is probably like 45-50 kilos and thinks girls who are probably 45 kilos fat. She thinks everyone is fat and ugly. She calls her own sister fat, she calls her closest friends of 10plus year fat and that their outfits are horrendous. I would love to know what she has said about me.

Since her breakup, she has been sleeping around and flexing it. Look, there’s pros and cons with sleeping around, but it’s when you are flexing your body count to guys you are wanting to have a fling with is the issue.

She met this guy and went on a date with him a few months back. She was on this “date” for 24 hours. Her mum was messaging me freaking tf out. Her mum and I were talking and telling me that her own daughter is a pathalogical liar. Earlier in that night they went on the date and went to his house. She messaged me saying “he hit me 4 times” I freaked out. Mind you this happens earlier in the night and didn’t come home the next day. She had multiple opportunities to leave. She had the dirtiest sex with him, had hickeys ALL OVER herself she looked like a mess. She wouldn’t shut up about it and saying he’s an abuser I said to her “why didn’t u leave” etc etc and she was just acting dumb. Please note in no way am I belowering any DV survivors because I don’t mean to be putting it in that way. This girl continued to fuck him AND CONTINUE SEE HIM AND TALK TO HIM UP TO THIS DAY. Im sorry but if you get hit by a man you went out with for like not even a day and you continued to stay you have to have problems. And to even see him again.

The other night she came over Friday for a sleep over and told her mum she was staying at mine the Saturday night but instead she wanted to stay at this OTHER guys house. I said yeah that’s fine because I knew the plan and I knew like she was gonna be at his house what not. Well sadly the other boy actually never messaged her that day lol. It was a Saturday night and she wanted to drink and go to the pub. I’ve just started this new medication which im not really meant to drink on. She basically peer pressured me to drink saying it would be fine. So I caved. I had 1 drink and started to feel anxious. She was telling me it was going to be fine and saying she will do whatever I wanted to do. Now I know you will call me a pussy for this but she started like humming music to make her look bored and bro did it piss me off. Like im having a fucking panic attack from this alcohol. She was messaging the guy who hit her and I stupidly encouraged her to just see him for like 2 hours out in public just so I can have some rest because I was running of 2 hours of sleep. She called this loser and they Made plans and said specifally he doesn’t want me coming out to say hi because apparently im an ick and a pick me girl. I said in my defence without thinking before I spoke “ok well at least I don’t hit girls” amy hung up the phone and lost it making me feel bad saying like “ugh I don’t even want to go now like why did you do that” but this guy never even called back to stand up for himself about what I told him. She told my 90 year old grandma who I love with to her face she will be gone for a couple hours. This was at 10:30pm. She messged me like half an hour after she will be home at 1-3am. Grandma (who is showing early signs of dementia) comes in losing it worrying about her because she wasn’t home. She said she shouldn’t be worrying about her. I message Amy pissed off because I just got woken up and grandma was losing it at me. Amy was telling me to tell grandma she was staying at his but she wanted to come back to mine 3-4am instead. I said to her “I don’t do this I will let you know shit I need an answer” fast forward I wake up at 9 am and she still wasn’t back at my house. I lose it at her because my grandma is so upset. I told her she has no respect what so ever. Amy just kept manipulating me. She said “im waiting for him to wake up so I can come back” um there’s a door babe. Then she said “my phone is on 1 percent” then fucking charge it. She told me she will be at mine at 11am but nup she went to a cafe so far away from me with him. So you’re going on a cafe date with the guy that hit you. I also would like to say, I know we are adults I get it. But it’s when you leave all your shit at my house, lie to my grandmas face and think she’s too dumb to realise and lie about getting hit is fucked up. I had to tell her mum that she was seeing this guy again and her mum told me she is a pathological sick liar.

I blocked her on everything because I was being a little smartie and send her a pathalogical lying TikTok. She called me a cunt and told me to go and fuck myself, and I have never been happier cutting of a girl who is beneath me. AITA for cutting her off