📝 AITA for deciding to end my friendship with my roommate

By Squidfoyy • Score: 2 • April 22, 2025 4:18 AM


So in my freshman year of college, I got randomly a randomly assigned roommate, and dispite being very different people, we quickly became very close as friends. We decided to get an apartment together for our sophomore year, but she ended up getting a co-op internship for the second semester so she hasnt been here. About a month ago, I went to visit her at her internship, and we got into a few little fights, which is relatively normal in our friendship. We butt heads sometimes but we always seem to get over it. A few days after I left, I noticed I hadn’t heard from her even though I had been texting her. I finally contacted our mutual friend and asked if she had heard from her because I was beginning to get worried. The friend said that they had been talking but she would text her and see. After that interaction i got a text from my roommate that read “im fine.” At this point I knew something was wrong, so i texted her asking if she was mad at me. She never responded. It has been almost a month, and tbh i just think ghosting is unacceptable in a friendship. I would have been more than happy to talk about why she was mad at me, but in her ghosting me i think she ruined her own chance at communicating with me ever. Also, I think this is hitting me extra hard because I would never do this to anyone. A few months ago, she shared the story of my SA with someone who I didn’t want knowing, and I still didnt ghost her. My only problem is that we will be living together again next year once her internship is over, and i really dont want it to be awkward between us. I really have no idea why she is mad and tbh im just posting this here to see if i am overreacting to this situation.

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