So english is not my first language so there may be some issues in the explanation.okay so i (14) female just lost my last grandfather on my birthday it was very painful for me especially as it was my birthday only my one of my mom's sister's daughter and my father wished me happy birthday and my besti . Even my mother and my sister didn't.i don't mind as it was a difficult day i barely saw my mom on the days before and after again i understand why. But it was a Little disponting as we didn't even cut a cake or even wish me happy birthday. I brought it up to my father asking if any of his birthday's was spent in a funeral he smiled and said no but it's ok these things happen and not to upset over it. This made me want to cry because his had not gone through that and he just ignored my fillings on the matter so i just walked out of the room. I just want to say that I like my father a lot and i can't just bring it up again because I'm a very awkward person and don't like confirmtation. I have been in a bad mental state since i have having very bad anxiety over the smallest things.i just don't know how to handle this.im i the AITA for filling this way.