I’m 35 and honestly I’m just tired Not physically tired exactly more like emotionally drained I’ve always been the one people come to the one who helps who listens who shows up

And I don’t mind being that person but lately I’ve realized that no one really shows up for me in the same way I started setting small boundaries saying no when I need to choosing rest over running around for everyone else

And now suddenly I’m different I’m not as available people are acting like I’m selfish just because I’m finally taking care of myself

I don’t want to be cold I just don’t want to lose myself in trying to be everything for everyone

So yeah AITA for choosing peace and finally putting myself first after all these years?