📝 AITA for following a girl my friend found pretty?

By Financial_Sleep_3445 • Score: 1 • April 15, 2025 3:33 AM


hi, i’m a girl and this happened almost one year ago.

my girl friend (let’s call her sarah) sent to our group chat, a profile of a girl saying that she just saw her on tiktok and found her pretty and i agreed and followed that girl (i didn’t text her, i didn’t interact with her) but if it was a girl who she had a crush on or something more serious i would never do that. she got mad and i explained my point of view and apologized but she didn’t even listened to my audios (i hate when i hurt people). a mutual friend (she’s on our group chat and lets call her olivia) said that she didn’t like what i did as well and that it was fucked up of me. and to be honest i thought it was not the end of the world but i respect their opinion. well, our group wasn’t and isn’t the same anymore since that happened lol. sarah still talks to me sometimes (barely tho) but olivia doesn’t seem like my friend anymore, she also started dating a new girl and yeah it’s also a reason why she is distant for sure. it makes me sad but at this point, i can’t force anyone to stay in my life and ive no energy for this. im controlling myself to not delete myself from that group chat tho (we don’t even talk there anymore lol) bc i know they still talk to each other (sarah told me bc i said that olivia is distant from me since that incident happened and when she started dating, but sarah didn’t even seem to care and she kinda ignored it) and it hurts my feelings that they talk and im left out :( we were friends for 5 years but yeah it is what it is. AITA and should i do something?

im sorry if the story was confused to understand tho hahaha, my first language isn’t english.

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