I moved to a different state with my sibling this past fall. We do nothing but argue and have disagreements. He put up most of the money for the move by using his 401k. I never asked him to and the idea of moving was his. We never wanted to live together, but his credit wouldn't allow him to live on his own. So the house is in my name. We agreed to split the rent and utilities, but over time his rent has been short and all the utilities are on me. I'm working 2 jobs just to stay ahead. I almost wouldn't mind, but all the housework falls on me too. Dishes, sweeping, mopping, garbage - you name it, I do it. I'm not one for gender roles but it would be nice to have help. We originally agreed to split the house - 2 rooms for me, 2 rooms for him, and share the living room, kitchen, and basement. I gave him the master because he has a big dog, but somehow the xxl sized cage has ended up in my other room (which is small to beging with). Only one car will fit in the garage, so I let him use it. The basement is home to his things only because there's no room for my stuff. He complains about a lot, hates that I have a relationship with his dog and I've already had to call the cops on him because he put his hands on me and almost fractured my hip. Our lease is up in September and I can't wait. I've been counting down the days like Christmas is coming. I know that moving on my own will force him to do the same. I'm so stressed out living here that it's taking a toll on my health. I'm almost sure that he will have to move back to our home state and has not been saving any money. My mother has been worried about what will happen to him and the dog if he can't keep up with his bills or can't qualify for a house on his own. AITA because I don't care?