I (28M) have been in a relationship for 2 years with me (27F) gf. Everything is great, sometimes we get into this dry spell phase. Initially I didnt care that much , but the more it went the more I started doubting myself, my image, my stance, what am I doing wrong, etc etc. when I used to bring it up I would be shut down, called needy etc etc and I would take that and do only introspection and see how can I improve myself. At some point I completey lost my shit, got honest with myself and boundaries, and decided that its a big deal for me. Its either a relationship with intimacy or no relationship at all. Have to admit, every single aspect other than that is a top notch. But I gave up to my hedonistic tendencies. Whats the judgment of the community?