For some context, my birthday is in 3 days (April 21st) and I have been without a phone since february. I had a (relatively) old iPhone model, the 11, and was already beginning to notice the deterioration of certain functions. Then, my friend accidentally dropped and broke my phone on the way back from the gas station. Something else to keep in mind is in my state I am too young to work. If I had been able to work and by my own phone, I 100% without hesitation would, but that is simply just not an option.

The issues started when my mom put the idea in her head that since I wasn't responsible enough to have a cell phone, she would install a landline. Me and my dad were both extremely taken aback by this proposal. In our eyes, this would just lead to more expenses than an iphone 13 or 14 and wouldn't really solve my and my dads concern of my safety when I walk to school.

Then the real issues began. Communication was and still is so difficult between me and my family and friends. My friends have either been struggling through hours of trying to get through to me just to hang out, or just do stuff without me because there is no garuntee their attempts will even work. I have been inside more than ever and am starting to experience cabin fever. I also have late volleyball practices every week. If the person picking me up will be late or picking me up in a different spot, I won't know.

My family has started reaching out to my mom asking her why she wont just get me a phone. Every time, she just lies and brushes the question off. My dad is furious but can't to anything about it because his phone line is full and the only way to add more phones is to open another line under my moms name. Considering her thoughts on the situation however, this is impossible.

Just recently, I asked my dad if there was any chance I would get a phone for my birthday. He said he doesn't know because my mom isn't budging. I am furious to say the least. This all just feels like some big grudge my mom is holding, constantly calling me irresponsible and childish (even though she broke her phone too). My family is split. Most are on me and my dads side, saying it's unfair to hold this against me for almost 3 months. The rest though, think I'm being entitled and bratty and need to get over it. So, AITA for getting mad at me mom for not getting me a phone?