okay so i (25 F) has a big-ish family of 15 people (including cousins i talk to etc) every year at some time me and my family have a little family event. we just talk, go swimming and do other stuff. we have this little inside joke where we touch each others like chins. (really weird i know) well our family isn’t the skinniest. with me weighing 80kg at the length of 165cm. my grandma on the other hand weighs about 160kg+ and the same length as me. as i said we have a little inside joke that barely anyone understands. so as we were just sitting i was sitting next to my grandma. i did that little thing because it started a few years back with me doing the same things. so i thought it was funny.

i did so and everyone was laughing except my grandma. she just looked at me. called me a disappointment and said i was fat for no reason at all. my whole family knows i’ve been struggling with my weight and the way i look so this just really hurt. i said nothing, walked away and drove back home. when i got home my phone blew up with everyone saying that i ruined the family time. and that i really disappointed everyone. i’ve been thinking alot about this recently and i’ve been really struggling. lately my life hasn’t been so easy and i keep thinking back about things that hurt me alot. i don’t know what to do.

AITAH?