So last night my friends and I went to the club. I chatted with a few guys (they bought us drinks). At one point this guy and I hit it off. But I live in South Africa. Where it's rather dangerous for women to be alone with men at night. As my friends wanna go the guy wanted me to come with him instead. I don't say much since I don't want to immedetialy refuse and potentially upset him/ make him angry. As I'm still excusing myself from him (in a nice way) my friends leave. I only notice that they left after the fact. I end up catching up to them. They thought I was going with him. I end up crying since I was frightened that they just dissapeared and get told I should have given them more of a sign that I didnt wanna go with him. I know it was probably a misunderstanding. But I'm still hurt that they'd just leave me to go with some dude alone. For all they knew I was drunk and in danger (I was drunk but not THAT drunk)

Anyway. AITA for crying and getting upset?