I was working at the gas station in town at the time and some women came in and you could see their pierced nipples through their shirts so I make a post in a friends discord about how I appreciated that and thought it was hot. I came back a while later and my comment was gone. So I checked the change log and this dude deleted it and had been doing stuff like this for some time. So I publicly asked who deleted my comment. People asked what the post was so I told them and the person got all butt hurt about it, that I was objectifying women, and said we could have done this privately. I said I would have done this privately but this isn't the first time my comments have been deleted from this server by them and I wasn't going to deal with someone trying to be morally superior when they fuck around on dating apps while being married. They deny they did this so I take screenshots of when it happened and say here's the proof. They tell me if they ever see me again they will put me in the hospital so I leave and block them on everything. I get invited back to the server after a while. So I join and found out that the only thing they said in the fallout of that happening was people shouldn't use screenshots of what was said in the server for anything. I ask for an apology for them not doing anything about them threatening physical violence against me and nothing happens so I basically check out and don't look at the. This weekend someone tagged me asking about something and I see they made a post about people not taking accountability for their actions. I say that's an interesting statement from the people in this server. Someone then proceeds to say I'm butthurt about what happened and I was in the wrong. I tell them they can delete themselves from my life if standing up for myself and holding someone accountable for their actions was the wrong thing to do. Two people then double down about how I brought up someone's marriage troubles, didn't know the whole story, and that I was the real asshole for using what they said in the server against them. So I tell them I'm not going to have some manipulative shit bag with anger problems police my life and if they have problems with me using things they said against them I'm out of here and left the server again. AITA?