I'm (22F, juggling school and two jobs, and still barely keepingu head above water financially. A few months ago, I decided to try OF. I don't show much, and I stick to suggestive lingerie type co tent. I feel in control. It's been a good help for the first time in a while I'm not drowning in bills and stress.

But here's the catch I come from a pretty old fashioned family.. they've always had very rigid views about what's respectable and what's not especially when it comes to women and sexuaity. I didn't tell them about my OF because I knew exactly how they'd react and I didn't want the drama.

Unfortunately, someone clearly found my account (still no idea who) and it somehow got back to my parents. My mother blew up my phone crying and yelling.. saying I've ruined their reputation and mine... My father completely shut me down for now.. A couple relatives messaged me saying I need to repent and get my shit together.

I tried to explain that I'm not hurting anyone, I'm not ashamed of what I'm doing and I've been supporting myself without asking a dime from them. But they don't see it that way..

It's honestly exhausting. I feel like I'm finally doing okay and they're trying to drag me back down... But now I'm wondering was I wrong to hide it? Should I have been the one telling them?

AITA for keeping it to my self knowing they'd react badly