📝 AITA for lashing out on my boyfriend because I didn't do something after work

By Important_Moose522 • Score: 2 • April 21, 2025 10:51 PM


Me (27F) and my boyfriend (29M) don't live together at the moment and see each other pretty daily, one day he came back to meet me in a mood that wasn't the best and he kept asking me to give him head after I refused multiple times he got angry with me because it's "what he needs after work" and I said I understood being at work has stressed him out but I've also been busy at work and it's been stressful, this caused many arguments for the next few days and he said everyday it would stop if I just sucked his dick which was the final pushover, I was shouting at him saying all he wants is for me to do this because he's had a stressful day but I didnt care at that moment, he continues to say I'm only with him for his dick so I may aswell get it over and done with, I wasn't with him for his dick, we have been together for only a few months and only been sexually active 2-3 times, that tipped me over the edge and I told him to get lost and not talk to me again, he's been messaging me for the past day apologising for what happened and he didn't mean what he said and I should apologise for saying what I had said even though surely he's in the wrong. AITA?

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