📝 AITA for leaving her classes? She was rude to my mum.

By Sensitive-Box-2906 • Score: 2 • April 18, 2025 1:26 AM


I'm a school student. I joined her coaching classes the previous year and went for only some days cause she would torment me, talk rudely to me ame would indirectly roast me. She thought I was someone with empty pockets.

I didn't objected as for I didn't knew she was insulting me (I'm a bit, too dumb in these matters). I didn't told my parents about this at all, cuz I know they would have a talk with her which I didn't wanted (she would target me for that as well).

But yesterday she crossed all the limits when she indirectly insulted my mum on text, I felt so bad. Idk what to make out of the convo.

Their convo went like this:

My mom: Ma'am, I'll pay the first installment of the fees in the first week of may.

(M's) mother

What she replied:

Tution ma'am: Mam, its ok that you will pay the first installment in the first week of May. I understand there must be some valid reson for it, but I would have immensely appreciated if you would have asked me about it rather than informing me about it.

My mom: Sure ma'am.

(The spelling of reason is incorrect though) See, I come from a well to do family but my parents work hard everyday. It's not possible to pay such a lum some amount during the middle of the month.

Their are two installments, the total fees is like 32,000 for a year and we don't have classes everyday, it's alternative and I always tend to rush.

I reach my house(from school) just before 7 minutes before the tution. This month, my bus fee, school fee,integrated batch at school fee, dress fee, books fee, and many other huge fees went, I get it you want your first installment but this is not how you talk to a student's parent.

My mum is a professor at a renowned Institute, even my dad is a professor at renowned university, they have got like hundreds to thousand students dropping by everyday. Whenever I got with them, I notice one thing that is their behavior remains the same , polite as it should be whether they're talking to any of their colleague , student Or their parent. I'm not comparing but I'm really sad.

The best part my mum didn't told me about this, instead she wrote the reason for paying the fees late to the tution teacher (mum anticipated that shw would target me if she writes it so she deleted it halfway).

My mum had a slight idea of that the tution teacher would target me (due to my irritated and silent behavior). I was so enraged, I was actually going though her texts when I read their convo.

Afterwords I told her that I won't be going anywhere.

For that she politely wrote: Ma'am, (M) won't be able to continue from this point onwards. Kindly tell me the amount I have to pay for the previous classes she attended (I barely attended 3-4 classes this session). Thank you (M's) Mother

I immediately left her classes, guys she adjusted the class timings for me, I'm thankful for that and guilty as well but that doesn't gives her nay leverage to talk to my mum like that.

Now tell me guys AITA for leaving her classes?

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