I (21F) recently left my dad’s house very suddenly and now he’s blowing up my phone saying I’m ungrateful, dramatic, and that I “made things worse” for the whole family but I just couldnt take it anymore. Without getting too graphic there were really uncomfortable boundaries being crossed by someone close to him (his friend who’s always around). I tried to bring it up once and my dad made me feel like I was overreacting, like I was being “too sensitive".....a few nights ago when I literally couldn’t sleep. I felt scared and disgusted just being in that house. I packed a some stuff in the while everyone was asleep and left. I haven’t told him where I’m staying. I’ve been crashing wherever I can and he keeps messaging me saying I’m putting “stress on the family" He always said that whatever is going on that I should always come to him first but I did. He just didn’t listen. Now I’m the villain for leaving to protect my peace? I feel like I’m being guilt tripped for not staying somewhere I didn’t feel safe.

AITA for going no contact and not telling him where I am?